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Is Your Sex Life High Anxiety? Not Sure If You Are A Sex Addict Or A Good Lover?
The Difference Between A Good Lover and Sex Addiction is Huge.
Sexual Health, Sex Addiction Question
I’ve reviewed your web site – I want to experience your work.
However, I’m a little confused. I feel as though I know my body and I like it. I’m very sensual and sexual – not afraid to explore anything at all.
The problem is I don’t have a healthy sex and love life. I’ve been lead down a path of cheap, random and lackluster experiences. I feel, as though this is the cause of much unhappiness and loneliness, which prevents me from enjoying life to the fullest.
Sometimes I also don’t know where to draw the line. I mean, when is sex healthy as opposed to not healthy. Since I have an extremely strong drive towards sex and ecstasy, I often find myself stuck without healthy ways to express my sexual self. Can you explain to me your approach and how it might help? T. P.
Sexual Health, Sex Addiction Answer
Yes, T. B.
A lot of people are confused about sex. Take a look at the behavior of the President of the United States of America! Basically we are very sexually immature, not just the President. And take a look at the response to his behavior. It is equally immature, being judgmental and condemning. This reflects our society’s current state of sexual development and current consciousness about sex. No so hot!!!
You are confusing your addictive behavior with sex. Using sex as a way to reduce your anxiety is not the same as using sex for its real purpose. A sex addiction is like any other addiction; you are using sex to avoid facing and dealing with your real feelings about yourself. Sex, alcohol, or Prozac, are ways to control your behavior so you don’t get a chance to develop yourself and grow as a person.