She sets her children free. She does not sacrifice herself for her children and put guilt trips on them.
A loving mother sets an example of a person who takes care of herself and lives her life fully, so that then her children are free to do the same.
To Correct Your Co-dependency Problem
You need to be responsible for fulfilling yourself. And let your boyfriend be responsible for fulfilling himself. Romance and sex will never make you self confident.
You need to create an equal, loving relationship with your boyfriend. He will benefit if you stay in touch with yourself.
You are the one he fell in love with. You are the one who is interesting and exciting.
Get back into your hobbies and interests. Don’t let the relationship become boring and mired in the past with unhealthy caretaking and co dependency.
Instead, empower yourself and feel your own feelings and emotions so you are strong and healthy. You need to be yourself in a loving relationship and give up your co dependency learning.
Resources To Help You:
1. Work with the emotional guide, “Opening the Heart” audio or ebook. You can find, accept and follow your own interests so you continue to be attractive to others and can feel strong in a loving relationship.
2. Study the audio, “Find Peace Beyond Judgment and Guilt.” to help you break free from your conditioned responses to please others and caretake them. Getting rid of guilt will help your feel self confident.
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